PARLAY HOUSE • SAN DIEGO

Find your people in San Diego.

There’s a room full of women laughing, connecting, and having the kind of conversations you’ve been craving. You belong here.

All you have to do is show up.

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So many women in San Diego have full lives — careers, families, and a never-ending list of responsibilities. And yet something still feels missing.

It can be surprisingly hard to make new friendships as an adult. Hard to find a space where you can be yourself, without titles, expectations, or small talk.

Parlay House was created for exactly this reason.

“This isn’t networking. It’s belonging.”

WHAT IT'S LIKE

Living rooms, long tables, real talk in San Diego.

Parlay House gatherings in San Diego are hosted in members’ homes and small venues, creating an atmosphere that feels warm, relaxed, and real.

Each gathering features a speaker, topic, or guided conversation, followed by time to connect with other women.

You don’t need to know anyone to come. Most women arrive alone. Many leave with friends they’ve been looking for for years.

WHO YOU'LL MEET

Curious, thoughtful,
done with small talk.

Women come to Parlay House in San Diego for all kinds of reasons: a new city, a life transition, a quiet wish for more depth. Some have plenty of friends but want real community. Some just want a room full of women who get it.

Most of our members in San Diego are in their late 30s to 60s: curious, thoughtful, and done with small talk.

YOUR SAN DIEGO HOSTS

The women holding the room for you.

INSTIGATOR · SAN DIEGO

MONICA BLOOM

Why I became a Parlay House instigator:
I moved to San Diego without knowing anyone and wanted a place to build real friendships—not just professional connections.
What I love outside of work:
Beach walks, cooking for friends, and long conversations that go deeper than the weather.
My favorite book or movie right now:
Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow — it’s all about friendship and showing up for each other.
Why women's community matters to me:
When women gather with intention, we remind each other that we don’t have to do life alone.

INSTIGATOR · SAN DIEGO

ELENA MARTINEZ

Why I became a Parlay House instigator:
After a career pivot, I craved a community where I could be honest about what I was figuring out.
What I love outside of work:
Yoga, farmers markets, and hosting small dinners in my living room.
My favorite book or movie right now:
The Paper Palace — it’s messy, human, and unforgettable.
Why women's community matters to me:
We lift each other up in ways that change how we see ourselves—and what we believe is possible.

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FROM THE ROOM

Women in San Diego say:

I didn’t realize how much I needed this until I found it.

Jordan R. Member San Diego

I showed up alone and left with women I actually want to see again.

Priya K. Member San Diego

It’s the first place in years where I’ve had conversations that feel real.

Amanda L. Member San Diego

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